Crystal

In Reply to: In regards to me "playing games" posted by Crystal on July 01, 2003 at 15:09:15:

: I must say, I am very upset. I can not, understand how someone who does not even know me can accuse me of such a thing. I am in tears, I really did not deserve that.
: People, like me. Come here for support. I really needed it & instead I ended up feeling WORST then when I came here spilling my guts. I learned something here. I can not trust strangeers at all. I am a decent human being & being accused of "playing games" was absoulutly unfair. I wonder if you are happy now?
: I sincerly hope other people seeking support wont be personally attcked as I was.
: Crystal

Crystal,

I understand how you feel... Let me try to explain so maybe you can feel better.. I think everyone comes here for information and support and all of us believe we have found this wonderful supportive place with wonderful people.. Its partly true, but not necessairly the whole truth.. Something else happens here besides carpal tunnel and its called paranoia.. All it takes is one thing to be said that someone else takes the wrong way and the other posters start believing you are an imposter and someone always ends up getting hurt.. Its happened to me more than once here and its happened to the ladies who think you are playing games now.. Hang around here long enough (like I did) and you will get your feelings hurt many times.
This is the very reason that I seldom post on this board anymore.. I read it for the information on ct, but thats about it unless I feel I should post and then I will.

Don't cry Crystal and don't be offended if you can help it.. Don't let it get to you.. I fought it and fought it and it did absolutely no good whatsoever...You should hear whats thought of me...LOL I've been called the biggest game player of all time...LOL I was told more than once that this was a nice board until I came along and ruined it for everyone, etc, etc...
And you know what Crystal? I just don't give two cents anymore.. Let people think what they want of you, and just go on with your business and be yourself and don't pay any attention to what they say to you if you can help it...
Thats the best advice I can give you so that maybe you will feel better. You are free to email me if you want or need to.
Debbie